Monday, September 6, 2010

Irish taxi 4

It was getting on Irish taxi number 4 that I got a glimpse of the harder side of Dublin. Ariel and I had watched some of it one Sunday evening as it was the first time we had ever seen that many older women wasted, and being pulled by (we hope) their husbands to walk straight to get home. But the morning of my departure, at the ungodly hour of 4am, revealed even more.

Wow. I just realized that I don't remember this taxi driver's name. Nonetheless, he was probably one of my favorites. He carried my luggage into the trunk while I gaped at across the street. Hundreds of taxis lined the streets where hundreds if not more teenagers and young adults were walking, stumbling, up the street.

I questioned the driver if it was true what they say, "Are there really more taxis in Dublin than in NYC?"

"Ay," was his response. "We have 28 thousand of 'em."

New York City, as I had just been there to find this number out, has 13. Ter-teen tousand, if you're Irish.

We continued on and the usual small talk ensued. But with me, it's never small talk, as some of the first questions was where I was going and why. When I explained that I was a youth worker, the driver said, "Oh! That's great. Must be a very rewarding job!"

He then proceeded to tell me about his life. One that began with the high hopes of being a professional football player. He was even drafted (is that the right term?) for the English Premier League when he was 18. When he took some time off, he ended up breaking his leg, which stopped that dream.

"But you know?" He paused. "I wouldn't be who I am today if I had played." (Oh how I wish you could hear the rhythm and intonations of my friend the taxi driver.)

"I wouldn't be married to the woman I am now. She is a wonderful woman. And I wouldn't have the kids I do. i would take this life over that one any day."

That's quite a lot coming from a taxi driver. It made me think of my summer on the couch with a torn ACL and so I told him about it. We agreed that there are a lot of things that happen not the way we planned them, but they happen for a reason. I even got to share with him my story about the loss of my cousin and the adoption of my brother, trying to make sure I explained that I knew Jesus loved me and worked out the story for His glory. I even briefly mentioned the circumstances that allowed me to go to Argentina. Some things can be heart-breaking, but we need them.

He then told me about the sickness of his father. He said he's starting to believe that God really does care about him because of the comfort his father is receiving. We arrived to the airport about this time and couldn't go on, but he said he was so grateful he got to take me to the airport. I was just as if not more grateful for him, so I gave him a nice tip.

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